Free thoughts come and go. As Sadguru asks in his lecture- "is there a necessity to overthink?"
How to know the difference between thinking and overthinking then?
That's an interesting point to make.
Whenever a person makes notes for a reason, for example a thought process to prepare for what to speak for some XYZ cause; that becomes thinking. That is preparing a thought for making efforts, to do certain karma.
But many of us think over the results, being judgemental about it. Instead of thinking about our efforts we are more likely to think over- "what might happen if i don't pass or fail?". So there you start the process of overthinking which gives free thoughts with ease. I try hard to overcome this.
Our mind has become a convenor of such free thoughts which is portrayed as significant in our lives. But which is not true.
Thinking about results only makes us feeble and we tend to increase unnecessary thoughts which attempts to destabilize our mind.
Hence making a clear distinction between these two kinds of thoughts is the key.
So when can we do this?
Silence.
Yes. Closing eyes and observing mind. What kind of thoughts often arise in our minds. Let your mind free and let all the thought come out one by one. Just give way to each one of it and allow such unwanted free thoughts.
Once one starts letting all thoughts and frees out mind. The vaccum starts replacing the unnecessary thoughts. But the known intellectuals say it requires years of tapas.
However taking a baby-step in this great process of getting more humane sounds interesting than to remain ignorant and overthink.
So let's try to sit 5 minutes in silence in a day and try observing our thoughts and let's discuss further. Shall we????